Self-empowerment! how can we improve.

As of this on going negativity around us, this deadly virus which has round us with much of negativity , that we became mentally so depressed so afraid , along with this all other ongoing natural calamities in around the  world.

 

Even though we have many people around us to help us out from our difficulties and negativity but still at the end of the day it's only you who listen to your own thoughts, believe on your own decisions , and finalize your own advice .It become absolute to make yourself so optimistic to get through this all negativity and depression.  

Once you made yourself so strong and empower your thoughts and believes positively, there is nothing and no one can take you towards negativity. 

So let we focus on all the possibilities positively that we don't leave an inch for negativity .Let there will be light, let there will be life. Because we all know darkness could not sand in front of light, and I believe we have so much of light and positivity that we alone can fight back towards all negative impact.

I wish and hope this could help everyone who is going through negatively during this pandemic. Stay strong, stay safe and most importantly stay optimistic! 

Criticism! Almost Everywhere .

As we all encounter criticism in our every stage of life, it become necessary to know what and how we could get over it. 

Weather its our personal life or professional criticism never leave us, no matter how and what we do people will always having something to say! 

Many of us feel tired of listening and criticizing of people, but they never stop. What we can do to get out of it? 

Either you listen or you ignore still the talk comes to you. 

Let's have a positive impact upon this, If someone criticized you, let you see does it really needed? Is there something in you or in your work which has to change to be more good? If yes go for it and appreciate their criticism, if not God has given you 2 ears! You know how to use those ears better. 

To make a change in this world, be the change! 

Let you start making criticism as encouragement around you.Let you criticize people in such a way they feel it as encouragement, let them know what's wrong in the way of their doing something in  a polite way where you criticize them but in a positive way. This gives them one more reason to learn and to be more good in their own way and you'll be their encouraging support. 

So let's start from today to move forward to a better, beautiful and a positive world made by you! 

Stay Special!

Everyone wants to be special! Obviously it makes so good to be special, when someone special cares for you, when someone gives you more important, when someone needs you always and most importantly when your presence and absence effects someone. 

These all things we want , everyone wants to get this in life.

As we all know almost all the time we couldn't not get this feelings ,because we always expect it from others. Expectations kills! But still we expect because we do that much for others, here comes the point! Stop expecting and Make yourself so strong that you make people feel special ,which will be the best feeling in the world when someone feels special and the reason is "YOU". 

And this makes you special without expecting. Let your presence make you feel special. 

 

Love yourself so much, make yourself so special that people crave to be your special one! God made you so beautiful so unique solution different that no one could copy you, your kindness, uniqueness and your way of thinking. 

Let you yourself understand how special you are rather than expecting it from others. Because at the end of the day it's you and your thoughts who think about you! 

Secrets of your life!

We all have many secrets in our lives, we often say these to anyone till we get that strong believe on them. Secrets! Which is something shows what is real you, your secret can give power to someone to break you or make you. So it's really much important to reveal your secret to someone.

People scare to share their secrets even with someone who is so close to them,i feel we should! Because we never know what's going on in someone's mind, no matter how good they behave out with us. But you can and you have to keep at least one person in your life who know your secret who know who you are the real you, so that when time comes where no one believe you or your plans that one person could be your true witness, your whole support. You could try some tricks to know who is your true secrets keeper. 

But be very careful that your close one shouldn't have a close one then you. Every relationship stay strong on the foundation of trust. And when there is trust there should be no secrets. 

Even in your way to success,  let you keep your goals your ways to reach towards success be a secret. Everyone must know this proverb :Work in silence and let your success make noise. This tell  us the real secret for success.

So at the end of everything my intuition to write this is to tell you all that be worthy by keeping your palm closed with your secrets from everyone except the one whom you trust and believe, the one who could be your secret keeper! 

If you have the one you are lucky and if not start searching and you gonna get lucky too soon! 

Hidden child within you!

We all know personally that we have a childish nature somewhere in the corner of our heart.But once we become mature we couldn't behave like a child and for this we kill that inner child within us just to show our society that we are mature enough to manage things,to make wise decisions, to take responsibilities and to walk with everyone equally.

But in actual when we are alone we feel like to go back as a child and enjoy life in every moment.

This doesn't mean you stop caring about anything or leave everything as usually childres do,it means let you continue the good things as a child. The way they forgive people, the way they love unconditionally, the way they be kind no matter who you are and ofcourse somtimes the way they enjoy without worrying  about what future holds! 

So this hidden child within us always be there for us it's just that we need to remember and Continue to go with it when the time is correct. As we grow old it doesn't mean we could not go with our childhood habbits or wishes, it will be the exact time where perfectly you can do it with your maturity sense which become as mixture of childishness with maturity.

Once you know your childishness and wish to take it out you'll be getting somewhere someone with the same wish and the universe make them come to you where you understand it's not a big deal to continue with our childishness even if we are mature enough.

Trust me it comes in a very beautiful way when maturity and childishness works together.

Let you try this once and am sure you gonna enjoy each and every  moment of your life. 

A day before you die!

 Day before you die! This make you think end of your life, your death. But what actually it means? 

Death doesn't only mean end of life, before the actual death everyone experience many things which die within them or in their life. We all have a wonderful world in our life, a world where only people known to us, where we care for them and love to live our life with them ,to help them, to support them. We live in a world were we are connected to people knowingly   or unknownly,till we meet them they never exist in our world! But when we get in contact we make memories with them and when the time comes some may get out of our life for some reason, which make us feel now they didn't exist, which means they are dead for us. 

Sleep!  some studies says when we sleep our conscious mind rest and our subconscious mind starts working which make us think about the deepest thoughts which you are keep on thinking everytime and this we call as "dream"! Our body becomes motion less same as when we die.

So my conclusion is that we die every night and every morning we take a new birth which gives us a day full of opportunities to get closer to your dreams! 

"LIVE EACH DAY AS YOUR LAST DAY" and you'll live your life to the fullest. 

Lone vs Alone!

So here comes two type of stages in life Lone and Alone! 

Loneliness,this comes in everyone's life who going through some crisis like heartbreak, lose in business, lose of loved one and most effective "Negativeness ".

During this time people often feel like there is any possible way to get out of that,it make them feel stucked in and no-one could ever help them or understand them. 

Here comes the situation where you yourself can get out of those thoughts. Make yourself so strong enough to stand firm till you believe there is way. Because every pole has two sides, every lock has a key in the same way every problem has a "SOLUTION".Be patience, sometimes you have to go through the worst to get to the best.

The second Alone! Most of the people like to go with this, people who love to live their life with their own rules, Where they live their life to the fullest.

Most of the time we need to stay alone rather than being lonely. It's than we understand what we actually want in our life. 

Staying alone make you remind your actual needs and loneliness takes you towards the dark! 

Make yourself so strong mentally, physically and spiritually, that you  never need anyone at any stage of your life to support you or else make atleast one person no matter who (Mom, Dad, Sister, Brother, Cousin, Colleague, Neighbor, Uncle Aunty )or someone who make you feel like they know you, the real you!

But always remember "You are not alone".

Gender Bias!How to stop this?

Girls too have the right to live their life by their own ways. 

Why am I saying this? 

As I was on my way back to home from work I saw a group of boys giving comments to every girl passing by that way. I felt wired! And then I realized that it's not just those boys, it's almost everywhere and almost everyone have their unwanted opinions for girls. 

"It's as important for girls to stand on their feet like the boys. I don't discriminate between the two and that is not something we should be doing. Our world is also moving towards a more equal space.

so what we can do to make it right? 

It starts the moment a boy takes birth. The one who give birth is too a girl,a female, a woman! And when we start teaching them from the start that we should not discriminate by gender.Rather everyone can focus on their hardwork,achievements and more specifically their sacrifices! Which they do almost on every stage of life.

Even GOD have shown what where women's  stand in this world, Women were not taken from men's feet, to be under him, nor were they taken from his head, to be above him. Women were taken from his side (Rib), to stand beside him and to be equal to him, under his arm to be protected by him, and near his heart to be loved by him. 

Silence! Your unknown strength.

Silence and not react to the different types of people you will encounter on your journey towards a greater life.

I've begun to realize that you can listen to silence and learn from it. It has a quality and a dimension all its own.There is no need to go far away or anywhere else to find peace. You will find that deep place of silence right in your room, your garden or even your bathtub. 

Being silent is a good practice. Often times, we just say what is on our minds without thinking . To limit your words and only speak them when it is necessary.

Somtimes in life we often feel to say what we think, but there comes a moment you have to be silent,because the one who know you they dnt need your explanation and the one who doesn't know you no matter what you say or do they never understand you. For them your silence speaks louder ! 

People always try to get you down,make you believe you can't do things what you  have planed or you have dreamed of.You get two options during that phase of your life,first let you make them understand that you have the courage to get there! And the second stay silent, let your success make noise! 

THE HIDDEN POWER WITHIN YOU

Empathy is one of the most important aspects of creating harmonious relationships, reducing stress, and enhancing emotional awareness.

Feeling someone’s energy from a distance is a day-to-day reality for the people who are sensitive on a soul leve. Somtimes we feel happiness and sometimes sadness too during but the feeling we get it's not ours indeed it's someone else 's .

The stronger the bond will be, the more you can feel the other person.

The relationship between a mother and a child, a husband and a wife, two lovers, two sisters, two brothers, brother and a sister and alike relationships.

When the connection is established, you could always send healing energy or compassion to your loved ones when they are in pain.

But it is important not to suffer just because you can feel someone’s emotions, make yourself stronger to combat any negative energy.

beauty of Nature

Nature is a god gift to this world .Its beauty is not only seen, hear or smell by us, it’s a feeling that can’t be erased.

Enjoy the first snowfall of winter months, enjoy the first rainfall of rainy season, enjoy sunrise and sunsets once in lifetime, enjoy the winter winds, enjoy the rainbow after rainfall.

These are the easiest ways to enjoy nature. Every work is important but enjoying life with nature is more amazing and necessary. Once every year go with your family, friends, to enjoy nature and its beauty. 

when something goes wrong, go to Nature! It has its own ways to give you a warm comfort. Research has shown by connecting with Nature one can heal themselves from heartbreaks, sorrows, depression, lose in business and almost all the negativity can disappear.

Nature has its own ways to protect itself  and even to us.

Try it and you'll see the wonders around yourself!

Go with your Intuitions! They know your destiny.

So what is Intuition is?
When you get confused taking a decision,like everyone tell you to do something and you feel something else. The more strong voice which keep on whispering in your mind, that's what intuition is!

Some people feel a strong urge or sense in there core when something is wrong while others, with a less developed intuition, might feel a small inkling that they aren't really sure how to interpret it. Some people are born with a strong intuition and know how to listen to it from an early age whereas others develop their intuition or tune into it as they grow a stronger sense of self-confidence. The more that you love and trust yourself, the more in touch you become with your intuition."

There's a reason why that particular thought keeps on popping up in your head. It's your intuition trying to speak to you. 
Never discredit your gut instinct. You are not paranoid. Your body can pick up on bad vibrations.
 If something deep inside of you says something is not right about a person or situation, trust it.” 

Money comes and goes, but your inner feelings, your gut feelings, your manhood, your womanhood, whatever, that stays with you. That don't go anywhere. So you either proud of who you are and how you handle situations or you not. If you handle a situation wrong, you, it will haunt you.     

When life knocks you down!

When life knocks you down, do you bounce back fast or drown in your emotions and give up?

When bad things happen, it’s natural to feel down. You may even fall into the trap of assuming that things will never get better. Unfortunately, this mindset is the very thing that keeps so many people stuck in one place and drowning in victimhood.

Take a moment and think back to every hardship you have endured in the past.It doesn’t matter how many times you fall. All that matters is that you bounce back.

I’m a true believer that you will never know how strong you actually are until being strong is the only option that you have.

From my personal experience, I have found that the longer you stay down, the harder it is to get back up again.

I encourage you to use every fall as an opportunity to evolve into a wiser human being. Failing is merely proof that you’re trying; so fail more and do it well!

Power of your positive thoughts

Positive thinking is an emotional and mental attitude that focuses on the good and expects results that will benefit you.

Want to learn how to think positive? The first step is realizing it’s all up to you. When you become the master of your emotions, you can always determine your mindset regardless of outside influences. Taking responsibility for how you think, act and feel allows everything in your life to fall into place. Sometimes you can’t control life’s events – but you can control how you react to them. 

You can choose to focus on the negatives or the positives of this – and any – scenario, but if you choose to focus on what’s bothering you, it will begin to negatively impact your life. You’ll also attract more negative situations – people won’t be friendly to you when you’re scowling and hostile. You’ll forget that you can empower yourself to tackle any situation and start believing that positive thinking is out of your reach. You may evenpunish your partner or others for not living up to your expectations, eroding your relationships and adding to more bitterness.

Yes, positive thinking can change your life. Studies have found that positive thinking helps you live longer, reduces loneliness and more. But the most life-changing effect of positive thinking has to do with the law of attraction. This is the idea that what you focus on, you attract.

“Whatever you hold in your mind on a consistent basis is exactly what you will experience in your life.” When you focus on the negative, you’ll experience more negatives. But when you focus on the positive, the whole world opens up to you.

something special is waiting for you!

Nature, this is a gift from god to all humanity and yet still we destroy it, nature is a necessityto make our world look beautiful and spectacular and is also needed to grow all of our crops.

We are blessed on this planet with small glimpses of the divine. They are all around us. We need not look far to find the beauty. Small miracles are all around us. We simply need to go outside and take a look around at all of the great creation to which we belong.

when God keep you waiting, and you feel stucked in or something is holding your wings tight! During that have faith and stay strong,because to fly like a butterfly we need to get through the stage of pupa.

There’ve been people across the world that have beaten all the odds against them, and they have done so with a positive outlook on life. A positive attitude and a willingness to keep going will get you past your problems and into a place of peace. Give it a try!

Break your fear!

When you fear,you feed your mind with negative energy

And negative energy further attracts negative circumstances in your life

So whenever you fear something, try to think of something positive happening in your life

You have conquered all the challenges life has thrown at you and things can change if YOU try !

There is no more sure way to fail than to never try. This year, don’t let fear kill your hustle before you even get moving.

Have a positive life ahead. 

Healing power of music

Music it’s an explosive expression of humanity. It’s something we are all touched by. No matter what culture we’re from, everyone loves music.” Most of us would wholeheartedly agree with this statement.

In our everyday life, it is practically impossible to avoid stress. Even if you tell yourself not to let it happen, it is extremely very hard to control the way you feel and react to a stressful situation. When you are facing stress, the best you can do is to listen to music. Play your favorite music tunes that make you calm down. You can create a playlist for various situations and play these tunes depending on 

Feel the rhythm and you'll enjoy the peacefulness of the universe.

What you see can comes in a different form

Once a girl going  through some crisis in her life and she think there is no possible way to get out of it.she stop herself talking to others,she stopped laughing,she took herself in a way where there is no happiness at all.All she think is there is an end to her happy life. 

One day while walking back to her home she saw a small girl,her dress was so messy,  no haircut and had a small dirty doll in her hands.

But inspite of her dirty look she noticed that the small girl was smiling and happy.

That day she realized that happiness comes from within you not by the things you don't have or by the situations going in you life.

If you are happy your world is happening!